When guys seek out how to attract girls they are often given the same advice each and every time. They are told to ‘be confident’ and to ‘just be themselves.’ Well this is completely useless because chances are they already know this. What they don’t know is how to be confident and how to be themselves.
Step 1 – Body Language
The key to being confident is to feel GOOD. Have you ever felt nervous and uptight and noticed that your body language completely changes? Chances are you cross your arms or hands, slouch forward and take up less space (standing with your feet close together). When women see this they automatically lose attraction towards you.
Now imagine a time when you felt totally comfortable and laid back. Chances are your body language was very relaxed and loose. If you were sitting down you were probably leaned back with your arms and legs spread out. Or maybe if you were at a club you stood with confident posture, taking up lots of space (wider foot stance) and possibly even leaned back on a wall holding your drink down low (not up by your shoulder). Well when women see this they automatically assume your a cool, confident, high value guy. All qualities that they are extremely attracted too.
Step 2 – Vocal Projection
Girls are extremely attracted to Alpha Guys. Think of all the ‘leader’ type guys you know. The guys who everyone else follows. The guy who seems to call all the shots. What do all these guys have in common? They have a loud, powerful voice. When they talk everyone listens. So the next step to attracting girls is having a strong powerful voice. This conveys your a leader and are used to people respecting you and listening to you. So from now on I want you to speak louder. Don’t think of speaking to people. Think of speaking THROUGH people. If people tell you that you talk very loud take this as a compliment and continue talking loudly.
Step 3 – Cocky Funny Attitude
If you have implemented the first 2 steps into your life you should notice a huge difference. You should see that your getting more attention from girls. So the next step to spike attraction with girls is through your personality. Most guys act totally different around ‘average looking girls’ than ‘beautiful girls.’ This is why most guys complain that the only girls that like them are the girls that they aren’t attracted to. This is also why beautiful girls just wish that guys could act normal and be themselves around them. But instead they act totally different.
In order to attract a girl you have to take her off the pedestal you put her up on. She’s just a girl and girls are abundant in this world. If you can act playful, cocky and funny around a beautiful girl her attraction for you will go through the roof.
From now on if you want your life to completely change I want you to improve your body language, vocal projection and adopt a cocky funny attitude. This is how how 2 attract girls. Not with expensive gifts and flowers. Girls only like this when your dating and they’re already attracted to you. If you buy them gifts or do romantic things for them before this they they will just think your ‘creepy.’