How to Become An Alpha Male – Two Absolute Principles to Do So

I’m sure you’ve met some guys that seem to be able to attract women almost without any effort. They can approach and pick up women naturally; they can even do that easily to any woman with guy escort. Their presence alone can make a difference and women are “magically” drawn to them. Sounds familiar? Yes, they’re the so called alpha males and no; they weren’t born with that gift. They gained it through experiences. You may also learn how to become alpha male if you know the principles.

If you wish to discover how to become alpha male, this is the first rule: leave beta male characteristic that might have implanted in you since you were a boy. I’m referring to most of the guys way of thinking currently; they desire the most attractive woman they’ve seen but lack the self-confidence to put themselves on the same level as her.

The “you are so beautiful with so many guys after you and I’m below you” idea is the reason why beta male only get leftover girls. If you are approaching a female and everything that you do (the way you speak, your body language, and the way you treat her) reflect that concept, she’ll instantly looks at you as an inferior guy and reject you. In case like this, the best thing that you could get is become his best ‘guy friend’. She’ll talk to you about all her problems but won’t permit you to go beyond that.

When all the attempts to attract her failed, many guys that don’t know how to become alpha male will turn to another typical tactic: getting her approval with cash. A bucket of flowers, high-class dinner, become her driver and drive her everywhere, buy her jewelry, dresses, bags, and so on. These things are likely to backfire on you; she’ll think that you’re being manipulative and trying to buy or attract her with cash.

Remember this: DO NOT buy a girl something expensive except when she has done something to deserve it. Picture yourself as an alpha male where you don’t seek for her approval, but already have an enjoyable life where it’s her loss if she does not want to be a part of it.

The second rule on how to become alpha male is never let yourself fall to the “boring guy” category. Yes, perhaps you enjoy trading stocks, but there’s no reason to discuss how the most recent policy affects your stocks and stuffs like that. Safe those for your guy friend or you will end up being one of the guys who is speaking by himself while his girl chatting with someone else over her cell phone.

Having interest is good and  women actually like a man who has “life” and passion for his job. Nevertheless, girls need excitement in the conversation; discuss your interest but leave out all the logical description and involve her in the conversation by asking her opinion on various issues.

Physical contact is one way to keep your woman excited. The iron rule here is refrain yourself from ask her permission to do so. Yes, don’t ask “may I kiss you” and such. It will kill the mood immediately; PERIOD.

By asking her agreement, you put her in a complicated situation; if she says “yes”, she afraid that she will be seen as a slut, so it is “safer” to say “no”. Rather than seeking for verbal permission, an alpha male will look for signs in her body language and strike at the right time; this is applied for kissing, touching, and even sex.

Source by Alan Edward Robinson

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