If you boyfriend is not picking up the phone and he is not returning call either, then it is understandable that you will panic. You are probably worried about whether you still have any chance to win your boyfriend back.
Well, fret not! Winning a boyfriend back is definitely still possible even if he is not returning phone calls. In fact, there are certain tactics that you can use to make your boyfriend happy to call you back.
Before I reveal the method, it is always good to know the psychology behind it. Generally, human beings are motivated by both self interest and curiosity.
In other words, if you can arouse his self interest and curiosity, you can easily make him call you back willingly.
So, here’s the trick.
You want to say leave a voice mail or message that sound something like this:
Hey, John, I really appreciate what you have done for me. Call me back as soon as you see this message so that I can thank you in person.
So, what has this message got to do with curiosity and self interest?
Well, first, John will be curious about what he has done for you. So, that’s the curiosity part.
Second, John likes to be thanked by you. He feels good. That’s the self interest part.
With these 2 factors in place, he can’t help but call you back.
While this tactic works very well, you have to be careful when using it. You need to have a step by step plan in place. If not, when he calls you back and you do not know how to answer, it will backfire on you.