If you want to get better at anything, you’ve got to practice. This makes sense. We understand this when doing things like playing sports, and learning instruments, and learning languages. But in other areas of our life, we don’t seem to recognize it as much.
For the most part of human history, most guys and girls didn’t have much of a choice who they got together with. You hooked up with somebody at church, or a friend of the family, or through your social circle. Unless there were major red flags, you got married, had a family, and that was that.
Nowadays, there’s a lot more opportunity. For some this is a good thing. That means they have a much bigger pool of people to choose from. If you’re planning on creating a relationship, or starting a family, that means you can potentially find somebody much more appropriate.
However, this is a double edged sword. Back in the old days, since you met people through your social circles and what not, you were “pre-qualified,” so to speak. It was a lot easier.
Now you’ve got to do a lot of that “qualifying” on your own. Not only of yourself, but of the other person. So on the one hand, there’ s a lot more potential, but on the other hand, there’s a lot more work involved.
And it ain’t easy work. Talking to five or ten cute girls every day is a problem for most guys. But unless you are good at talking to a lot of girls, all the potential in the world is useless to you.
So, what do you do? Practice. How do you practice? There’s two ways. One is to simply force your way through the awkwardness and talk to girls. The more you talk to, the better you’ll get at presenting yourself as well as qualifying them.
However, this can be pretty tough. You’ll face a lot of rejection, and this will make it more and more difficult to get out there and practice your skills.
Luckily, there’s another way. You can use self hypnosis, and tap the power of your subconscious mind. See, when you talk to girls and get nervous, your mind is automatically creating that nervousness. Your subconscious thinks you are in danger, so it’s giving you that anxiety to remind you to be careful.
But when you reprogram your subconscious so that talking to girls gives you good feelings instead of anxious feelings, you’ll be able to talk to girls all day long without any problems. Even when you get “rejected” you won’t feel bad.
It will feel like trying on a pair of pants that don’t fit. You won’t feel bad. You’ll just put them back on the rack, and go looking for another pair.
How do you do this? Simple. Just spend time every single day imagining yourself talking to cute girls and having incredible success. The more you do this, the more your subconscious will automatically reference those good feelings instead of those old ones.
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