When you’re in a relationship with a man that you are crazy about, what happens if you call him too much? Will he embrace it and think you’re delightful because you want to talk to him as often as you do or will it irritate him and cause tension between the two of you? Obviously the answer varies depending on the man in question and the strength of the relationship, but most men do view telephone calls with their lover the same way. Unfortunately, it’s not the same way that we women do.
What typically happens when you call him too much is you quickly lose his interest. The reasoning behind this is actually very simple. Men are hunters, they love the thrill of the chase whether that’s playing a video game or trying to catch the heart of a woman. If you are the woman in question and you make it too easy for your man, he’s going to start looking for something a bit more challenging, or someone a bit more challenging. If you call him several times throughout the day you may start to notice that he doesn’t always pick up. Or if he does he sounds impatient and frustrated. Another very common scenario is the man who always lets your calls go to his voicemail and then never calls you back.
The best approach to take when it comes to men and telephone calls is to use that privilege sparingly. Only call him when he’s already left you a voicemail or he’s specifically requested you call him. If he’s told you that he’ll call you, let him, even if it takes him days and days to do it. Play a little hard to get by not always answering his calls. This may seem like a game but it’s actually an easy way for a woman to keep her man chasing her. If you can keep him running after you, you’ll always have his interest.